50 Best Spring Pickup Spots ...

for the singletons, or to pass along to your single friends.

TONYs 50 Best Spring Pickup Spots

for the non-single though, worth checking out, some interesting go to/things to do around NYC.

ode to the nice guy...

This was written by a male undergraduate student... and how true! I wish I knew where my nice guy was.. oh, wait, I think I ruined him. But that's a different story..... 

Ode To Nice Guys

girls are like apple trees

i love this link! good for the single lady to remember, and to pass it along to the younger (teen) women out there who think their lives are over because of a boy!

Girls are like apple trees

how much WILL we settle?

Hmmm.... how true IS this? I find that as I get older, I don't care if he is a little rounder in the middle, and never really have as I am no bag of bones myself. Balding does not freak me out as much as it used to (as long as you aren't covering it up with a terrible comb over, or aren't now compensating for loss of hair up top with the growth of it in other regions below your neck..).
Shave it, and own it. I remember I dated someone once that was slowly falling victim to male pattern baldness. I met up with him one day, and saw that he had decided to take it all off. However, he wasn't so appreciative when I looked at his bumpy scalp, and then blurted "you look like a tyrannosaurus rex!". *Sigh*



However, there are other points in this article that I am beginning to look over. Yes, sure, I want to have someone that can take care of me, but for a long time, I have been taking care of myself. So don't be a lazy ass, and have a clear ambition and drive, and I can deal just fine with the not so deep pockets. I mean, the point is, for me at least, is to find that person that will bring the best out of me, and me out of them. Then, get ready for the corny coming your way, we can rule the world together. Now that, isn't really that much to ask.. is it?

Shorter than me? OK, that's where I get superficial. You should be tall enough for me to wear halls and not tower over you. I am not tall to begin with, so really, that's my one non-negotiable!

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